MANNERS MAKE UP THE REAL MEN!
Etiquette and gentleness matters a lot to all women, no matter their age and position in society. Under their variegated dresses (Indian women are so lucky in this respect!) they are gentle understanding and highly sensitive persons.
We men must consciously and purposely learn–LEARN- to respect and appreciate them for being what they are! And also UN-LEARN a lot of baloney and bullsh*t that we grew up hearing from our elders!
I happen to know many men who lost their prize catches within weeks of their weddings simply because they impressed their brides as too jerky assholes and because they were too rough and tough with the young women, as if the latter were mere wild broncos that had to be broken, to be of any use!
>50000 family litigation cases remain pending in our family courts. And mostly it’s the men that get shamed in open court too for their abominable manners by the defense lawyers!
Some others boast of their previous conquests during their foreplay! Some smell horribly, and some booze away and behave oddly. Some drool and stink of too much pan consumption!
ALL such men in reality engender in their women a feeling of intense contempt!
Some are too impatient to spill their seeds everywhere!
One nasty fellow-I’m ashamed to say he belongs to my small community–kicked and hit his newly wedded bride so many times and so viciously that she fled to her own home–back to the safety of her military Dad’s welcoming arms and told him everything.
When the new hubby turned up to re-claim his woman, the old man put his licensed army rifle (loaded) against his chest and ordered him to sign on the dotted lines in a divorce suit and then kicked him out of the house.
I also happen to know many young women that suffered because they chose on the basis of the man’s income and position alone!
Horoscope obsession on the part of parents ruined many lives too.
In all these cases, once we fling out the nonsense, we see the adverse consequences of severe lack of manners!