ARE YOU TRANSPARENT OR OPAQUE TO YOUR FAMILY?

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ARE YOU TRANSPARENT OR OPAQUE TO YOUR FAMILY?

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IS YOUR HOME LIFE TRANSPARENT PLEASE?

If you value your life on this planet PLEASE ensure that your family life has 100% transparency! This SOS in public interest comes from someone that has observed and learned from everything he has observed all through his life about HOW infernal human life can be made out to be under a roof in a scenario of total emotional incompatibility!

Media derives considerable glee from reporting on anything and everything that looks or sounds odd to them–e.g. persons dead of unabated hunger for long, kids from broken families, runaway wives, men that made a dram a of their own suicides, or someone that climbed a tree threatening to kill himself unless something is conceded to him–, and naturally they are the lest interested in something looks as expected.

Journalists justify themselves with the excuse that readers are interested ONLY in the negative news or…

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ARE YOU TRANSPARENT OR OPAQUE TO YOUR FAMILY?

IS YOUR HOME LIFE TRANSPARENT PLEASE?

If you value your life on this planet PLEASE ensure that your family life has 100% transparency! This SOS in public interest comes from someone that has observed and learned from everything he has observed all through his life about HOW infernal human life can be made out to be under a roof in a scenario of total emotional incompatibility!

Media derives considerable glee from reporting on anything and everything that looks or sounds odd to them–e.g. persons dead of unabated hunger for long, kids from broken families, runaway wives, men that made a dram a of their own suicides, or someone that climbed a tree threatening to kill himself unless something is conceded to him–, and naturally they are the lest interested in something looks as expected.

Journalists justify themselves with the excuse that readers are interested ONLY in the negative news or scoops that tickle them below the belt!.

Family life that is transparent has, as you expect, zero news value as such.

But ought such a transparent openly communicative and mutually and reciprocally helpful lifestyle be your ideal as a family man or as a home maker please?

I know men that maintain ‘stepney’ wives away from their homes without their legitimate partners’ knowledge and women that hasten to the phone to invite their gigolos the moment their hubbies have left for office.

Some men and women watch porn secretly. Some women urge their hubbies to go on tours and some men wish their wives dead too as a result! Some others bask in a ‘second life’ world with an online sex chat partner.

I also know of kids that conspire in secret against their own parents and who put up a show at the breakfast or dinner table!

In the course of my life this far, I also have chanced across many couples that started out their farcical wedded existence as partners that hated each other.

I also know a man whose wife told him “I Hate you most of all”   after having been a nasty iniquitous wife to him for over 30 years and in a huff added, ”I acceded to my parental pressure, that’s all!” It’s the men primarily that inhabit Hell in all such loveless alliances but once their kids are far away these men tend to totally ignore their women too!

Such men and women are a liability to this Mother Earth.

Or wives that refused to display the least interest in the professional advancement of their hubbies and kept almost everything secret from the men as well!

A Rule of Thumb in this connection is:

“Couples that point fingers at each other and erupt into mutual recriminations die alone because their growing kids refuse to emulate them and learn to refuse their participation in their own lives. They escape from such ‘Silo’ Homes!”

YOUR ‘LOVING’ MOM BUYS YOU CANDIES EVERY DAY,DEAR? BEWARE!

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Sugar Consumption High Among Children: Study

Indo-Asian News Service | Updated: September 12, 2016 13:46 IST

Children are everyday consuming up to three times more sugar than what is good for them, a survey conducted by an Indian-origin researcher has revealed.

“The results of this survey are extremely worrying. At a time when one in three 10-year-old children are overweight or obese, and one in three five-year-olds has tooth decay, the health risks posed by failure to tackle sugar intake are serious,” the Daily Mail quoted Neena Modi, Professor at the Imperial College, London as saying.

The survey was carried out among 1,288 adults and 1,258 children who completed a three or four day food diary.

According to the study, children aged four to 10 drank 100 ml of sugary drinks per day on average and sugar still makes up 13 per cent of a child’s daily calorie intake, more…

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YOUR ‘LOVING’ MOM BUYS YOU CANDIES EVERY DAY,DEAR? BEWARE!

Sugar Consumption High Among Children: Study

Indo-Asian News Service | Updated: September 12, 2016 13:46 IST

Children are everyday consuming up to three times more sugar than what is good for them, a survey conducted by an Indian-origin researcher has revealed.

“The results of this survey are extremely worrying. At a time when one in three 10-year-old children are overweight or obese, and one in three five-year-olds has tooth decay, the health risks posed by failure to tackle sugar intake are serious,” the Daily Mail quoted Neena Modi, Professor at the Imperial College, London as saying.

The survey was carried out among 1,288 adults and 1,258 children who completed a three or four day food diary.

According to the study, children aged four to 10 drank 100 ml of sugary drinks per day on average and sugar still makes up 13 per cent of a child’s daily calorie intake, more than twice the five per cent recommended limit.

Those aged 11 to 18 have a daily diet made up of 15 per cent sugar — three times the recommended amount. Meanwhile, adults aged between 19 and 64 are also heavy consumers, with 12 per cent of their diets made up of sugar, the study revealed.

About one-fifth of five-year-olds and one-third of 11-year-olds are overweight or obese. Children aged four to 10 have diets in which 13 per cent of their daily calorie intake comes from saturated fat.

“This data provides compelling evidence that we all need to eat more fruit, vegetable, fiber and oily fish and cut back on sugar, salt and saturated fat to improve our health,” Alison Tedstone, Chief Nutritionist at Public Health England.

While it is encouraging that young children are having fewer sugary drinks, they still have far too much sugar in their diet overall, along with teenagers and adults, suggested the study.

An overweight or obese child is likely to be an overweight or obese adult, thus increasing their risk of developing heart disease, type 2 diabetes and some cancers.

(This story has not been edited by NDTV staff and is auto-generated from a syndicated feed.)

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Dear reader,

In the light of the above mentioned realities what is the scenario across India? My nutritionist daughter Ms. Divya Arun, an ISOS-affiliated professional, has told me that sugar is almost as addictive a food item as any other drug, especially in cases of kids taking to it in direct form –or in concealed form as candies and toffees. Our taste buds catch on to glucose and sucrose molecules even when the food item as such contains very little of it.

And they help the person develop a craving for it all through his or her life also.

Kids brought up by ‘loving’ but misguided moms and dads partly on too many sugary delicacies all through their growing years go onto their adulthood somewhat like sitting ducks for all kinds of lifestyle illnesses too. For such kids no balanced diet pattern can be prescribed since they won’t take to it except with difficulty. They won’t like veggies and salads too unless these have a sweet taste in them.

You may meet hundreds of such kids, being escorted by their often glamorous moms cheerfully purchasing many varieties of candies and sweet delicacies for them day in and day out, usually in the afternoons when the kids are on their way back from school.

These moms and thousands of really well-educated and well-heeled dads are actually displaying their affection in a most unethical and unhealthy manner but without being aware of the long term consequences of what they are doing!

Take a good look at such kids for health purposes and you can see they are inclined to obesity already by the age of 8 or 10.Or they are already diabetic at that incipient age!

My point is elementary.

A habit of taking balanced diet must be ingrained when your kids are young, preferably before they touch 5 or 6.That is, if you are a mom that really, sincerely loves your kid and would wish him or her a long and healthy life without having to consult a physician except on rare occasions!!

And in this connection, a physician is no help. You need to consult a Dietitian in person and get a food intake pattern for the week, depending on the age of your kid! Preferably you need to retain that dietitian, at least through periodic consultation sessions, until your kid is a healthy robust adult!

My best wishes!

 

 

ONLY A DIAMOND CAN CUT A DIAMOND!

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MAJOR GOGOI’S HUMAN SHIELD ACTION!

I SALUTE Major Leetul Gogoi, belonging to 53 Rashtriya Rifles, primarily for his admirable presence of mind  actually, whatever else it may be labeled as by the army brass!

His nonpareil contribution towards the counter insurgency operations going on in full swing in that northern part of India stands duly acknowledged!”He saved lives under exceptional circumstances” declared the Union I&B Minister, and significantly enough added, ”The Indian Army appreciates him. He wanted to save the lives of the Indian citizens including officers who were on election duty”

That he has been awarded the Army Chief’s Commendation Card is of course recognition of his unique mental presence, which saved a lot of Indian soldiers from being mercilessly stone pelted by brainwashed miscreants from among the misguided Kashmir populace.

Major Gogoi, for your informational update, has made a long journey in his career. The son of a…

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ONLY A DIAMOND CAN CUT A DIAMOND!

MAJOR GOGOI’S HUMAN SHIELD ACTION!

I SALUTE Major Leetul Gogoi, belonging to 53 Rashtriya Rifles, primarily for his admirable presence of mind  actually, whatever else it may be labeled as by the army brass!

His nonpareil contribution towards the counter insurgency operations going on in full swing in that northern part of India stands duly acknowledged!”He saved lives under exceptional circumstances” declared the Union I&B Minister, and significantly enough added, ”The Indian Army appreciates him. He wanted to save the lives of the Indian citizens including officers who were on election duty”

That he has been awarded the Army Chief’s Commendation Card is of course recognition of his unique mental presence, which saved a lot of Indian soldiers from being mercilessly stone pelted by brainwashed miscreants from among the misguided Kashmir populace.

Major Gogoi, for your informational update, has made a long journey in his career. The son of a humble production hand from Assam rust belt, he hails from East Assam in reality. His home town Namrup, situated amid thick forests in the Patkal hills, and also notorious erstwhile for its insurgency movements under varied names, is about 80 kilometres from Dibrugarh city. Dharmeswar Gogoi, his dad served in production unit of the Brahmaputra Valley Fertilizer Corporation till he got retired. He graduated from the Indian Military Academy after having entered the Army as a stripling of 18!

Now let’s analyze the principle that he adopted in shooing off the pestering and heckling stone pelting youth of the Valley: to cut a diamond with another diamond! In his down to earth pragmatic mind, this alone would dissuade the youth from pelting stones at the soldiers under his command!

The elements that support,  incite and also fund the Valley’s unsuspecting youth hailing mostly from broken, mentally fractured as well as internally imbalanced Muslim households to pelt stones at the Indian Army troops are from right across the border, as you and I know only too well today.

Pakistan had begun on this route of adopting various contemptible tricks to snatch Kashmir from the Indian Union way back in 1947 with pumping thousands of barbarians from border regions and also vandal elements into the valley under cover of night and hounding out the Kashmir Hindu pundits from there. They did this in order to convince the United Nations of their right to Kashmir because its populace was Muslim dominated. The UN suggestion for a Plebiscite was refused by Indian union however because New Delhi knew of Pakistan’s base tricks.

Since then Pakistan has been giving India no peace in this matter. It’s in their habitual style to mutilate the bodies of the Indian soldiers they kill by hook or by crook and this has never allowed Indo-Pak diplomatic relations to be friendly at all. Our present day PM gave full freedom to the Indian Army to deal with these elements from across the border , trying to infiltrate into this country by night so as to mingle with local Kashmiri people and kill civilians and the military troops.

After 2014, most Indian media houses have exposed that nation too as being the hidden culprit in this activity. The global media have also taken due note of this. No one really has approved of it too.

National Conference (NC) party members, however, clandestinely sympathizes with such stone-pelting youth. They voice this sympathy by way of faultfinding the Union Government and ministry.

(As a result of such insensible spending on irrelevant issues outside their nation, Pakistan is teetering on the edge of bankruptcy too. To add insult to injury, President Trump has curtailed US aid to that country from USD 250 million to just USD 100 million, the amount being not really an aid but a 5 year loan!).

He tied a Kashmiri local to the bumper of his Army jeep and drove ahead of a convoy carrying many soldiers. This local was used as a human shield against the local stone-pelters for they wouldn’t wish to harm him, whom they knew, and who also knew them, whereas the Indian Army, in the eyes of the miscreants, consisted of strangers from elsewhere.

Excellent! The road became quiet, and all noises of protest died down instantly!

No youth dared lift his hand to pelt even a single stone and all Indian soldiers could travel in safety!

All counter insurgency operations need excellent presence of mind. Gogoi found himself gifted with an excess of the same!

I suggest that the Indian Army resort to this masterly strategy in all future logistics scenarios. It reminds me of the Saama-Daana-Bheda-Danda “graded diplomacy” approach that Lord Krishna adopted towards the recalcitrant, self-centered and argumentative Kauravas!

My best wishes to the Indian Army!

CAN WE TURN OUT THE IDEAL INDIAN CITIZEN PLEASE?

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ENHANCING EDUCATION QUALITY: THE INDIAN SCENARIO

I was invited yesterday to participate in a panel discussion with a retired IAS man running an NGO after his years of active service. The issue posed to me was my take on HOW to take the quality of average citizenship to a better more acceptable level thru bringing about the needed modifications within the education system.

Along with me were seated a bunch of educationists and planning board members. These persons struck me as a strange lot since they didn’t bother to get introduced to one another in any manner, and perhaps took each other for granted. So I took the initiative in doing so.

”Maybe they are exhausted by reading much” I thought to myself!

Reading too much can also be, along with tobacco consumption, harmful to your health you see!

“What kind of Indian Citizen do YOU have in your mind…

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