HEARTY GOOD MORNING TO ALL OF YOU OUT THERE!
COMFORT ZONES ARE BOTH REGRESSIVE, AND DAMPENING!
I have but dim memories of what kind of oddball I was at 15 when I came to this city as a poor relative of a college principal, but I think I was extremely lonely, diffident, introvert, with too much of my community to be a normal successful joy-radiating person, and much else!
Dale Carnegie (whose remarkable classic titled “How to Win Friends and Influence People” must be read by everyone!) it was that first catalyzed the changes within me and then I think I took off into the blue!
Soon I realized that once you take the bold step of crossing the Rubicon of your own familiar comfort zone, it’s a vast area filled with infinite possibilities!
Reaching out to OTHERS –other communities, other ethnic groups, other families, and others of your age from anywhere no matter the gender–has its own charm about it since we are set to learn something new every day!
Across India you can see a million different mini Indias but once you are in the learning mood, and if you keep an open heart in your approach, you shall meet the ONE person that is the perfect head-to-toe answer to your lifelong prayers to God!
Forget all those forbidding externals-caste, faith, family, parents, and siblings! Be courteous but honest!
Surmount them sincerely through A to Z honesty!
Be Bold for effecting a Change!
He or she responds as you would expect and reacts as you would wish!
He or she helps you make the kind of home where you feel you are in Paradise!
He or she understands even the temperament of those genes within you and even the minutest wrinkle on your face!
And you feel ‘absolutely and indescribably at home’ at any location on Earth when you are with him or her
And even at your home at last!
HAVE A GREAT DAY HEY, YOU!!